As a doctor, people often reach out to me for assistance. Getting help from some one who is more expert in a particular area is excellent self care. I have noticed over the years, however, that some are seeking my help in self love and others in self abandonment. People who self abandon don’t engage in understanding their condition or following their treatment plan. They don’t ask questions they have. Or if they do ask, they don’t really listen to the answers of take responsibility for following through. When you are not getting the results you want when you go to the doctor consider that self abandonment might be the issue. Margaret Paul explains this better:
